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冲动之时决不行动,否则你将有可能摧毁所有。
Never act in a Passion. If you do, all is lost.
当你不能控制自己时,你的行为通常不能代表自己。理性总是被***赶走。
You cannot act for yourself if you are notyourself, and passion always drives out reason.
这时候,你应该去找一个保持冷静的谨慎的中间人。这就是为何“旁观者清”,因为他们保持冷静。
In such cases inter-pose a prudentgo-between who can only be prudent if he keeps cool.That is why lookers-on see most of the game, because they keep cool.
一旦察觉到自己要发脾气,你就赶紧鸣金收兵。因为热血一旦沸腾,不久就会泼溅。
As soon as you notice that you are losing your temper beat a wise retreat.For no sooner is the blood up than it isspilt,
一瞬间的情绪失控会带来许多天的后悔,还有他人的责备。
and in a few moments occasion may be given for many days' repentance for oneself and complaints of the other party. |
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